Are You a Victor or a Victim?

I believe this is human nature. We blame whenever things are not going along the way we are expecting. Worst still, we sometimes tend to justify what happened.

For me, blaming and justifying are actions of giving excuses. In my previous post, I explained that excuses are providing “protection” on us not to learn from problems or mistakes. In other words, excuses are preventing us to seek for continual improvement. Under this scenario, people tend to claim themselves as victims. The bottom line, they are stepping backwards but not ahead. All they have “learned” are complaining.

To be a victor in our life, we have to be a warrior. A victor will learn from mistakes, refine his/her strategies or techniques to move ahead toward success. A victor will not give any excuse but keep learning for continual improvement.

So, are you a Victor or a Victim?