Saturday, May 1, 2010

Blame, Justify, Denial, Quit

Have you ever observed how people react whenever they face the obstacle that make them difficult to move ahead further?  Most likely, you will hear them complaining.  Why are they complaining then?  Simply because they are blaming, justifying or denying those unfavorable outcomes are not their fault.  They are defending themselves.


So, what is the outcome of blaming, justifying and denying?  People who are doing so are actually blocking themselves for further learning.  They tend to blame others ruin the tasks that produce failure but not them.

As a matter of fact, there is nothing wrong from making mistakes.  We should treat mistakes as chances for us to identify rooms for improvement.  To positive thinkers, mistakes will stimulate them to figure out how to avoid those mistakes again.  Mistakes do not make anybody ashamed but the defenders who think they are.  Please bear in mind, if every time we blames others for any undesired happenings, we will never be successful in life.

2 comments:

  1. Totally agree with you brother. We should take mistakes as a stepping stone to move forward.

    Never be disheartened by failure. Failure is a step closer to success.

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  2. Yes, absolutely right. In corporate world, people like to find someone to blame when bad thing hapenned. It is really tiring to hear those blame and fight. It is not solving the problem but making the problem worse. Like you said, we should always learn from our mistakes. No one is perfect.

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